Emotional Freedom Techniques - commonly abbreviated to EFT -
is a modern and growing form of personal development and therapy. EFT is one of
a number of recent concepts increasingly used for improving and developing
people. EFT can be effective for various purposes, including personal and
self-development, attitude and behaviour development, resolving personal
problems, reducing stress, and restoring life balance. This free article about
EFT is contributed by Peter Delves, a leading UK Emotional Freedom Techniques
trainer and practitioner, which is gratefully acknowledged. EFT, like many
modern spiritually-based or 'alternative' concepts, generates passionate debate
as to its scientific validity - especially among the scientific community and
conventionally-minded therapists. This article does not seek to judge whether,
how or why EFT works. This information merely seeks to introduce the concept
and to outline its principles, so that you can then seek more information or
try the methodology, and then decide for yourself.
Emotional freedom
techniques - introduction
EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) is about returning the
mind, body and feelings to a state of balance and harmony so you are not
limited by negative emotions.
Even though we are 'designed' to recover from unpleasant
experiences or thought patterns, nevertheless we can be affected by recurring
emotions from past events such as relationships, trauma or loss. We can also be
affected by ongoing or future events such as work-related stress, interpersonal
problems, depression and various kinds of anxieties.
In these examples, emotions can be stuck rather than
dispersed. Even if we try to ignore them, they still affect our lives. If
people decide to do something about the negative feelings or patterns they may
try counselling, see their doctor, or compensate for their feelings in some
way. Every approach has its merits, but many people will not have heard of
Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) as an option for resolving their problem.
How EFT works
EFT is a very effective yet gentle method of directly
balancing the body's energy system for the feelings that you want to change.
It's a bit like clearing a log that's blocking a stream where the log
represents a stuck emotion in your stream of energy. You don't have to believe
in the theory though, just as you don't need to know how a car works under the
bonnet to drive one. Some people do like to find out more about the theory,
while others are happy simply to have their problem resolved.
What EFT involves
Using EFT involves 'tuning into' the issue and then tapping
with your fingers on specific acupressure points with your fingers. For example
if you still carry anger towards someone who has hurt you in the past, you
would be asked to think about them, and notice how you feel. But you do
not have to relive past events. You just have to be aware that the
negative feeling is there. Having therefore 'tuned in' to it, you are shown
which acupressure points to tap, and what words to say as you do so. (Saying a few
things also helps to disperse the emotion from the system).
Having done that you are then asked to think about the
person or situation again and check how you feel. Typically you will notice a
significant reduction in the intensity of the feeling. If it's not completely
gone then the EFT practitioner repeats the process, bringing the intensity down
each time until full balance is restored.
All this is done while sitting normally in a chair.
After EFT do feelings
return?
Following an EFT session, the dispelled feelings very rarely
return. If they do this implies that there is a bit more work to do than the
practitioner initially thought. Of course you can still feel angry, fearful or
guilty about other things - and it might be appropriate to do so. But if you
have thoroughly used EFT for a specific issue, the feeling will not return.
Once you have sent the problem 'downstream', it does not come back up.
You will still retain the memory of the event you were
working on but it will no longer have the emotional charge that it had before.
The other thing to say is that there may be more than one emotion that needs to
cleared, like more than one log jamming the stream. So using our example there
might be the anger towards the person, but there could also be anger towards
yourself, or other emotions involved such as guilt or sadness. All of these can
be addressed separately, and often when you start to disperse one emotion the
intensity of others can start reducing straight away.
EFT original
development
The Emotional Freedom Techniques concept was developed in
the US in the 1990’s by Gary Craig. EFT roots are in acupuncture, kinesiology
and psychology. EFT is now spreading very rapidly in the US and in the UK,
where the concept is now used in some specialist areas of the National Health
Service.
Personal consultations in EFT and training for practitioners
in Emotional Freedom Techniques are available in the UK from Peter Delves
Associates. For more information about EFT visitwww.delves.co.uk. The
contribution of this free EFT article is gratefully acknowledged.
See the section on modern personaldevelopment, which shows how EFT can be integrated with other modern
development concepts to provide an effective alternative to traditional
counselling and training methods.
EFT, like many modern spiritually-based concepts, generates
passionate debate as to its scientific validity. This article does not seek to
judge whether, how or why it works. This information seeks to introduce the
concept and to outline its principles, so that you can then seek more
information or try the methodology, and then decide for yourself.
I could perfectly say that this is what I really need right now. I always feel like I carry the rest of the world that even when I am sleeping I am stressed out. EFT therapy could help me, definitely.
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